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@@ -33,7 +33,7 @@ We recommend the [nheko](https://nheko-reborn.github.io/) client.
 [@erin:chat.is-cute.ml](https://matrix.to/#/@erin:chat.is-cute.ml)
 
 ### XMPP
-[XMPP]() is a pretty shitty and broken messaging platform, but sometimes works ok.
+[XMPP](https://xmpp.org/) isn't our preffered platform, but works too.
 Please use *OMEMO* encryption when messaging us.
 
 [arson@lain.faith](xmpp:arson@lain.faith)
@@ -43,6 +43,8 @@ Please use *OMEMO* encryption when messaging us.
 [Mastodon](https://joinmastodon.org) is an open source federated social media platform following the activity-pub protocol.
 You can contact us using any compliant software, including [Pleroma](https://pleroma.social/) & [Misskey](https://misskey-hub.net/).
 
+However, we try not to be on here as much atm.
+
 [erin@transmom.love](https://transom.love/@erin)
 
 ### Pixelfed
@@ -52,8 +54,9 @@ You can contact us using any compliant software, including [Pleroma](https://ple
 
 ### Scuttlebutt
 [SSB](https://scuttlebutt.nz/) is a fully distributed p2p communication platform.
-It's still in development however.
 We recommend either [Manyverse](https://www.manyver.se/) or [oasis](https://github.com/fraction/oasis) as a client.
 
+We're most active on here.
+
 `@7Y4nwfQmVtAilEzi5knXdS2gilW7cGKSHXdXoT086LM=.ed25519`